The past few years, I’ve participated in my school’s alumni band as the basketball team played early season tournament games in New York City. I didn’t do so this year, because the games were scheduled around Thanksgiving. The logistics involved with my schedule, which included travel to and from New York City, were just too much, so I decided not to participate this year. I posted as such to Facebook, and one of my friends jokingly responded, “now that you’ve performed at Carnegie Hall, you’re too good for Alumni Band now?” I got a good laugh out of that, but another friend, who performed in both bands with me, also talked about his “tour of highlights where he’s performed.”
It turned into an amusing thread, but it also got me thinking about high points in my life. Now that I’m able to sit down and reflect about it (today, the Friday after Thanksgiving — I’m intentionally avoiding the Black Friday crowds today), I realize that I’ve had my share of life highlights — possibly more than most people have had in their lifetime. Far be it for me to boast about myself — I’m not that kind of person (seriously, I’m not!) — but here are some of the bigger, high profile moments that I’ve had (that I remember).
- I’ll start with my most recent. Earlier this month, I’ve had two within the span of four days. As I mentioned already, I performed with my community band at Carnegie Hall on Veteran’s Day. The previous Friday — only three days earlier — I’d given a presentation at PASS Summit. The former is a big moment in my extracurricular career, while the latter is a big one in my professional life.
- From my most recent to one of my first: in 1981, my high school marching band was picked to perform in the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade. (You can see a video of my band’s performance here! I’m playing the marching bells; you can actually see me around 0:25 in the video!) I think any young person would pick that as a highlight of his or her life! We were positioned after the Superman balloon and in front of Dave Winfield on the Big Apple float. I remember rehearsing on dark city streets in midtown Manhattan at 3 or 4 in the morning, and all the bands gathered on 34th Street after the parade to perform Christmas Sing-A-Long.
- I would have a few more moments with my high school band. We performed at a few NFL games, probably none bigger than the infamous snow game. Yes I was there! We were supposed to perform the halftime show, but they didn’t let us on the field — ostensibly for safety reasons. We performed the national anthem from the stands, and left after halftime. We did not even stay long enough to see the infamous snow plow on the field!
- We even got to perform pregame at a few Yankee games! This was especially thrilling for me, as a big Yankee fan! The high point was performing a solo with the band my senior year. As a clarinet player, I had to be miked. I remember playing my solo (which I could play in my sleep) while thinking, “I am playing in the outfield at Yankee Stadium!”
- My personal highlight reel continued as I joined the band in college. (Funny how most of these highlights seem to involve band!) I got to march in three bowl games (1985 Cherry Bowl, 1988 Sugar Bowl, and 1989 Hall of Fame Bowl) and an NCAA men’s basketball tournament. I even got on TV during the regional final game; we were playing the Syracuse fight song, and the CBS camera panned across the band, stopped in front of me, and the red light came on. I heard from multiple friends and family after that game — “I saw you on TV!”
I’ll stop there — you probably couldn’t care less about my life tour — but as you can see, I’ve had a number of “highlight reel” moments throughout my life. Now that I sit back and think about where I’ve been, I realize that I’ve done pretty well — and I’m not finished yet. We’ll see where my next adventure — whatever it may be — takes me.
So, what “highlights” have you experienced in your life? Every now and then, take a moment to sit down and contemplate what you’ve accomplished — and you’ll realize that you’ve done pretty well.